Unanswered prayer is conspicuous by its absence!
I was recently in discussion with someone about the building of the above huge 51 metre high monument costing £9.3m and called "The Eternal Wall of Answered Prayer". This is what the Guardian says of it:
An enormous Christian monument,
more than twice the size of the Angel of the North, is to be built on the
outskirts of Birmingham, fulfilling a vision its instigator says came from God.
The Eternal Wall of Answered Prayer will be constructed using a million bricks, each representing a prayer from a member of the public and its outcome. The aim is to “encourage and inspire people going through the storms of life”, said Richard Gamble, the project’s chief executive and a former chaplain of Leicester City football club.
The monument, which has been
granted planning permission with work to begin next year, has three goals: to
“preserve the Christian heritage of the nation”; encourage prayer; and
“proclaim Jesus for the country”.
More information can be found here:
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-coventry-warwickshire-54123035
My friend, although a Christian, was clearly troubled by the thought that the money to build this monument could be more usefully spent elsewhere. (The money, according to the Guardian, is being donated by Lord Edmiston, a billionaire businessman, Conservative party donor and evangelical Christian). Although I was quite fascinated by the idea of a monumental Mobius strip my first reaction was surprise at the go ahead by North Warwickshire borough council’s planning committee who unanimously endorsed the scheme; after all, the UK appears to be a relatively secularised country, so how well does this huge Christian monument express British civic values? Below I present part of our conversation (I've called my friend "Bert"):
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ME: At first sight it sounds a good idea to me. Love the symbolism of a giant mobius strip. Perhaps the country is not as secularised as I thought (Covid 19 anything to do with it?). However, weighing the incommensurables of the benefits of heritage (e.g. the moon landings) against more consumable benefits is not a straightforward comparison.
A good post though Bert: Got me thinking about balancing the monumental, which often serves community, kudos and status quo values, group identification and even hubris (e.g. Avebury, Silbury, Cathedrals etc...), against the more basic needs of just living satisfactorily. But I'm still puzzled and gob smacked that this project has got the go-ahead (unless it's a provocative troll article?). What's happening out there?
BERT: I’m actually shocked it went ahead. Shouldn’t we give our money to the
poor? Think of amount of meals that could feed those in poverty?
ME: Well yes, dire need should trump flights of
monumental vanity, but when you've got a big economic surplus, human beings
start to go monumental as we see in history. I assume your shock is about
misplaced resources. My grasp of the economics here isn't great enough to
contradict that, but I'm also shocked that what is basically a huge celebration
of theism should get the go-ahead in the secularised UK. What in God's name is
going on?
BERT: Reminds me of Super/mega churches
ME: Not too keen on those myself! Shades of
Nuremberg where you become one small cell in a frighteningly large organism run
amok. Perhaps the funds are better spent on food banks and even covid19
research. But trying to put the balancing act here aside, as a monument I quite
like the mobius strip. Although somebody did raise the question of "What
about all those unanswered prayers?" Like all monuments it makes you
reflect!
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So, what about all those unanswered prayers then? How big a mobius strip would that require? Are there even enough bricks? Well, a few days later, independently and in an entirely different Christian connection, another Christian friend (whom I shall call "Josh") opened up a short email correspondence with me. The following is based on the first two email shots of that correspondence:
JOSH: I had a thought I wanted to run by you. It’s to do with prayer and when we request things – a bit of healing, a repair job, a decision going our way, a job interview, etc – it’s clear to me that although all our good prayers are answered by God at a general level in terms of our Christian progression, in terms of prayer requests for day to day things, the pattern of hits and misses often appears to me to be no more prominent in favour of hits than a random coin toss pattern.
What are your thoughts on this from a mathematician’s perspective?
ME: I think you may be talking about confirmation bias here? That is, is the concept of answered prayer just a myth which arises out of a natural human confirmation bias?
A few days ago I was
discussing The Eternal Wall of Answered Prayer with someone else.
I don't think I'm the first to remark: "What about all those unanswered
prayers?" So the question is: Do the answered vs unanswered statistics
give us a result that is statistically significant in favour of
"answered"? Trouble is, stats doesn't work here.
The
question of answered prayer is reminiscent of the statistical research into
telepathy & precognition: Telepathy and precognition guesses which yield
simple and clear cut "yes" or "no" answers can be
mathematically checked for statistical significance but when the message
received is composed of highly complex pictures & relationships, judgements
about whether telepathy and precognition work are much more difficult to
evaluate. With these complex revelations it is very difficult if not impossible
to define clear cut and precisely defined mathematical probability spaces of
cases (prob of event = cases favourable to the event divided by all cases).
Answers to prayer are often more akin to these complex precognition and
telepathy models; they are like the intermittent transmissions received by a
radio receiver: That receiver may only occasionally splutter into life and
deliver a clear cut message for a short while: But just a single event like
that is so improbable as a spontaneous random event that you just can't help
the feeling that this single remarkable event wouldn't happen by chance! Clear
messages very seldom emerge from a sea of random noise.
I'm not a great prayer warrior myself although we do pray briefly for the family every night. I can only make sense of this area using the metaphor of the parent-child relation: The child asks for things and the parent responds either affirmatively or negatively within that relationship and according to the boundless wisdom (and love) of the parent (boundless as far as a young child is concerned!). Given the parent's much wider perspective the child is simply not going to understand why some petitions are answered and others aren't. In fact the parent may say "no" more often than "yes"! But let's remember this: A radio need only crackle into life once or twice on your desert island for you know that someone is out there!
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Epistemic Note
Our epistemology works best with regular, highly ordered, stable, accessible and relatively simple objects: If there are aspects of reality that don't conform to this pattern then our epistemic endeavors start to struggle; witness sociology, evolutionary psychology, economics, history and UFOs.
If epistemically speaking we are going to be bowled the curve balls of an erratic and complex reality then don't expect authoritative certainty to emerge and instead differing opinions will have to be tolerated; interpretation of these difficult to evaluate connections will be very (cultural) context dependent. (Meaning = text + context!). Here epistemic humility is advised. It is likely that the subject of answered prayer and the paranormal in general will fall into this category. Prejudiced dogmaticism either way is unjustified; but really, given the polarisation and passion that pervades some of these more debatable epistemic connections I suppose that's just too much to hope! See below for some of my links on the subject of epistemology.
http://quantumnonlinearity.blogspot.com/2018/04/forget-epistemic-demarcation-problem.html
http://quantumnonlinearity.blogspot.com/2018/03/evolutionary-psychology-under-fire.html
http://quantumnonlinearity.blogspot.co.uk/2014/01/evidence-not-proof.html
http://quantumnonlinearity.blogspot.co.uk/2013/09/yes-its-all-science-larry-but-not-as.html
http://quantumnonlinearity.blogspot.co.uk/2013/08/epistemic-notes.html
http://quantumnonlinearity.blogspot.co.uk/2012/08/its-science-larry-but-not-as-you-know-it.html
http://quantumnonlinearity.blogspot.co.uk/2015/02/evidence-guide-lines-but-not-tram-lines.html
ADDENDUM 7/11/20
An article very relevant to the above material can be found in the September 2020 edition of Christianity magazine. In the article, which is entitled Triumphalism, prayer warrior Pete Greig, initiator & leader of the 24-7 prayer movement talks about.....
...the embarrassing swagger of my early faith.....Throughout the first year or so of the 24-7 prayer movement we were probably pretty unbearable....[we] genuinely thought we had found the big red switch called 'Revival'.....If everyone would just pray the way we were praying, Jesus would be back by breakfast time on Thursday...I'm ashamed to admit that I was often inconsiderate and uncompassionate towards those who were finding life really tough.
But then,
Sammy [Greig's wife] got sick. I watched her slip into seizure after seizure, and no matter how much I cried out to God to make them stop - even claiming the scriptures - it simply didn't work. I went from believing my prayers could save the world to questioning whether they could save my wife.
Greig's attitude has improved no-end:
I still believe in miracles. I continue to pray for revival. But as C S Lewis said, miracles must almost by definition be rare. The creator is not a cosmic slot machine.... I hope I'm more compassionate these days. I'm certainly more comfortable with the sovereignty of God and the many paradoxes of life.
Greig puts a lot of his initial triumphalism down to his youth. But youth doesn't always explain it.